Our text for today is 1 Peter 4:9.
“Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.”
When we hear “hospitality,” we might picture spotless houses, perfectly set tables, and a meal worthy of a magazine cover. We might think, “Oh, that’s not me. My house is too small and too messy. I’m too tired. I don’t have the energy.” Peter knew we’d feel that way. That’s why he added that little phrase: “without grumbling.”
It reminds me of a story I heard years ago about a little five-year-old boy. His family had invited folks over for supper, and his dad asked him to say the blessing. The little fella hesitated, “Daddy, I don’t know how.” His dad encouraged him, “Just say what you’ve heard us say.” So, the boy bowed his head and prayed with earnest sincerity, “O Lord, why did we invite people over on a hot day like this?” Sometimes, our grumbling hearts speak louder than we intend!
Peter knew hospitality takes effort. It nudges us out of our routines, stretches our resources, and sometimes makes us want to grumble just a little bit. It asks us to make space, not just in our homes, but in our schedules, and in our lives.
But here’s the beautiful truth: hospitality isn’t about spotless houses or fancy food. It’s about opening a door, not just the one on your house, but the one to your life. When we offer a listening ear, a simple cup of coffee, a shared meal (even if it’s just pizza!), or a comfortable chair, we’re doing something sacred. We’re mirroring the heart of our welcoming Father.
You don’t need perfection. You just need willingness. A willingness to share your space, your time, your attention. A willingness to let someone feel seen and valued.
I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.