Choose Gentleness

Today’s Scripture is Philippians 4:5:

“Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.”

At some point, you’ve probably heard someone say, “You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.” This saying highlights how kindness and gentleness get better results than being harsh or confrontational. It reminds us of the power of patience, kindness, and gentleness in our relationships.

Gentleness isn’t about being passive or weak; it’s about having the strength to stay calm in the heat of the moment. It’s the ability to choose peace over pride. And here’s the beautiful part: when we act with gentleness, His nearness is reflected in our gentle responses. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Think about that for a moment. The thing that could have escalated into conflict is defused by a simple, gentle answer.

This is how we show the world that Christ is near—not by loud proclamations, but by quiet actions that speak louder than any words. Gentleness is a choice. Choose gentleness.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and this is a thought worth thinking.