Our verse for today is Ephesians 4:32:
“Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
Children often ask, “Why?” Let’s ask that question about forgiveness: Why should I forgive?
First, God commands us to forgive.
Forgiveness isn’t optional. Today’s verse clearly instructs us to forgive others as God forgave us in Christ.
Second, we need forgiveness ourselves.
In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive yours.” Our willingness to forgive reflects our understanding of God’s grace.
Most people agree forgiveness is important, but the challenge lies in practicing it. As one person said, “You just don’t know how badly they hurt me.” Here are three thoughts to help:
- Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting.
It means deciding not to bring the offense up again. This takes strength, but it’s worth it. - Forgiving lightens your load.
Holding onto hurt is like carrying a heavy burden. Over time, it wears you down. Forgiveness frees you. - Forgiveness helps you most of all.
While it can help others, forgiving always helps you. It frees your heart from bitterness and fills it with peace.
So, why forgive? Because God commands it, you need it, and it sets you free. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it.
I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.