I admit to having been jealous. You probably have also, but what does that mean?
Let’s read Galatians 5:verses 19 and 20
“The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity, …jealousy, and rage.”
This text includes many other terrible activities, but it speaks of jealousy right in the middle of these. Because of this, we rightfully think of jealousy as a negative behavior.
A reading of Exodus 20, verse 5 might cause us to pause in our thinking. “You shall not bow down to them or worship other gods; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God.”
Is jealousy wrong or right? The answer is: – maybe “YES” – and maybe “NO.”
At first glance, jealousy has a negative connotation—it is linked with selfishness and insecurity. Galatians 5 lists jealousy as a “work of the flesh,” warning that those who live in such ways will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Yet not all jealousy is sinful. In Exodus 20: verse 5, God Himself is described as a jealous God.
Here is a simple definition of Jealousy. It is the feeling you get when you feel that you are about to lose something of yours that you value and love.
The difference between “sinful” jealousy and “righteous” jealousy lies in motivation. Jealousy becomes wrong when it seeks to control or harm others for selfish gain. Think of Cain, whose jealous anger led to the tragic murder of his brother Abel (see Genesis 4).
It is righteous when it defends what is sacred, as God does for His people. Divine jealousy arises not from insecurity, but from His perfect love and desire for our undivided devotion.
God has a jealousy over you. What a wonderful thought.
I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.