Counsel on Love
John 13:35
“By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another.”
You might think people can tell you follow Jesus by the cross around your neck, your church attendance, or the good works you do. That’s not what Jesus said. He declared that the defining mark of His disciples would be the love they show to one another.
But what does it mean to love?
The greatest act of love was when Jesus gave His life for us.
The greatest definition of love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8.
Here’s what it says:
Love is patient and kind. It does not envy or boast. It is humble, not proud. Love is not rude, self-seeking, or easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love forgives. It does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.
This list might feel overwhelming to remember, but here’s the key principle: love is not just a feeling; it’s how you treat someone. True love shows itself through action. When you love someone, you treat them with patience, kindness, and all the qualities this passage describes.
In short: love isn’t about words—it’s about walking the talk. Without action, it’s not truly love.
I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.